For some of us, trying to sound sexy is a sure way to sound even more awkward. Can I?” or “Is getting sucked off something you’re into?” You can ask in a sexy way, like, “I really want to taste your dick right now. But unless you’ve chatted beforehand about past sexual likes and dislikes, being direct is how you gauge whether someone is ready for it. Also, assuming what another person is into, sexually or otherwise, can be presumptuous, particularly with new partners. probability sample, so we need more research to determine the exact states. Lots of folks agree oral sex feels amazing and is a super common thing to do in bed - a 2018 analysis found that more than 75 percent of people surveyed had given or received oral sex before. Our first bit of advice is to make sure, beforehand, that the other person is into it. Before you go down, make sure they’re down Always use a condom unless you’re 100 percent positive your partner can’t transmit anything to you.If you want to spit, be sure to have a cup or towel on hand.They don’t have to finish in your mouth if you’re not OK with that.Don’t be afraid to check in and ask how they’re feeling.Check for signs that they’re about to come.Consider edging if you’re both into it.Apply pressure to the perineum with a finger or your tongue.If you’re both into anal action, try some booty play.Ask if they like their balls tickled, sucked, or cupped.Check in with your partner about stimulating other erogenous zones.Only make eye contact if you’re both comfortable with it ?.Alternate between a hand job and blow job to give your mouth a break.Experiment with different positions until you find your favorites.But if you do, relax your throat muscles to reduce your risk of gagging. Use your tongue to apply pressure to the tip or stimulate the entire shaft.Wrap your lips around your teeth for a firmer feel.Start off with some foreplay to get the blood flowing.